Look Outside Your Own Self Existence

There is a wonderful book "Life Without Limits" by Nick Vujicic. Nick was born without any arm or leg limbs, however has made an extra ordinary life helping others find their place in the world. In a world where society is so focused on themselves, where people are busy and looking for answers and solutions all the time, how can you look outside your own self existence to help others and create good in the world.

I have just spent some time away on a beautiful island, when you are on an island with other people and not much more you really notice how people are and what society has created. People are more worried about themselves than ever before, people want to ensure they do not miss out, people have forgotten how to take the focus of them and put it onto someone else for greater good.

True happiness can come in many forms, however true happiness is rarely found from being self-centered. Sure in the short term it might be a means to the end, however long term it leaves emptiness and loneliness.

Being able to look outside of your own self existence and provide value, support passion, purpose and help to someone else, fulfills your life at the same time. Knowing that you are having an impact, making a difference and helping another gives your world meaning.

As humans we try and want to do good things by other people, it is just our focus that gets lost through the habits that we have built up. Habits though are easy to change. For the next two weeks try to look at any problem or situation from another persons point of view, look at it with finding a solution that will help someone else rather than just yourself, look at it from outside your own self existence.

Imagine a world in which humans where always thinking out for other people, humans where conscious of lending a helping hand, providing support to someone else and making sure that others felt good about themselves. Imagine a world where everyone was there to support one another rather than a world where everyone is out to get the best they possibly can for themselves.

It is not hard to make someone else feel special, feel wanted, feel important or just to lend a helping hand, all it takes is the ability to change your focus from yourself to the other person.


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Michael Griffiths is the CEO and Founder of Secrets Of A Super Life, providing individuals with personal development strategies to increase their purpose, passion, happiness and life fulfilment. For your free Life Success Resources visit http://www.mysuperlifetoday.com